The topic of losing one's virginity I realize is very awkward for most people to talk about. Maybe I should talk about when I first lost mine to ease into the subject. I lost mine back in highschool when I was dating this obese girl named Sharon. On second thought, I don't think we'll be rehashing any of these memories today.

The irresponsible me sees sex as something fun, casual and not filled with pointless emotional attachment. The sensible me sees sex as something pretty beautiful, shared between two people who have a strong affinity towards each other. I'm hesitant to call that sort of affinity "love" simply because sometimes people group love and sex together blindly. I honestly don't believe the 17 year old me knew what love was but I was convinced we were having sex because of it. The world is naïve and I'm no different.

So the question is, when do you know it's the right time? I know right now would be good. I'll just clear my desk here and make a few phone calls.

Looking for love in all the wrong places.